Busy, busy as ever.
At the end of January we had a mad dash around Fortaleza for Neu’s medical care. Leaving the house at 7 in the morning we drove to the West of the city to a hospital where Neu had to leave a fresh blood sample with the transplant team (this has to be done every three months), then North to the other side of the city and the clinic for more blood tests and Neu’s monthly check up with the dialysis doctor. We got out of there in the early afternoon and after lunch, drove East to another hospital to book more tests and a consultation with Neu’s transplant doctor, followed by a big shop in the supermarket, finally getting home around 8 at night, absolutely shattered.
We are still waiting for Neu to be called for a possible transplant, we were told that once he got on the list (which he did in November 2014) he should get a call almost immediately because he is highly compatible but that hasn’t been the case. Neu’s transplant doctor expressed surprise that he hadn’t yet been called when we saw her in December but two months on and he’s still waiting. On the other hand, it’s given us a bit of much needed breathing space and as Neu is doing well on the peritoneal dialysis, we are both quite relaxed about the whole thing. Neu is fishing as much as he can and we’re getting on with some of the jobs that have built up around the house and garden, the transplant will happen when it does.
We finished off the fence in the garden so that we now have a dog free area, which includes the balcony outside our front door, somewhere we can sit in the shade, enjoy a meal or relax in a hammock without the dogs leaping all over us. Another reason for having the dog free area is that I can now sow seeds and put in young plants without the dogs promptly digging them up again. I relocated a rose-bush from the back of the house, as I dug it up, it fell into 2 pieces but amazingly they have both taken and only 2 weeks on are already putting out flower buds. The jasmine cuttings have also taken, my basil seedlings are looking good, as is the rosemary and mint. The hydrangea Neu got me for Christmas has put out some pink flowers and I’m hoping that at least some of the chamomile seeds I scattered will sprout.
I also sorted out the problem we were having with the drain from the shower in our son’s room, turned out that where 2 bits of pipe had been badly joined, a root from the coconut tree had found its way in and, although the root was only relatively small on the outside, the beast I pulled out of the pipe was, as my son described it, like a series of electrical cables covered in hair. It almost filled the entire diameter of the pipe for the whole of the root’s 2 meter length. I only remembered to photograph it a couple of days later, by which time it had shriveled up a bit but it’s still pretty impressive and now it’s out of the pipe, that shower can be used again, it’s good to get all these odd jobs done.

Hi,
I have been reading your blog. I like your writings!
I live in the USA.
How is Neu doing? Is he still doing ok?
Not meaning to sound rude or nosey, but what are you going to do if something happens to him? Has his family adopted you pretty much or do you think you will wind up back in England?
I have wondered about Brazil. It seems like a nice place where you are at.
I used to live in Florida on a sailboat for six years. I miss the ocean and the tropical plants they have there. Now I am ” landlocked.” We don’t live near the ocean anymore. I do have fond memories of it though.
How are expates reguarded there? Are they having any problems with local government and people from other countries? Does a person from another country ever fit in? I have been considering moving to another country maybe one day. Any advice?
I am an artist too. But work with other mediums. Watercolors seem to want to control me…lol! So I do different types of art.
I enjoy reading your blog, so please keep writing! 🙂
Take care,
Lynne
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Hi Lynne
Thank you so much for your generous comments, I am always so delighted when I hear that someone actually likes to read what I babble on about, thank you.
Neu is fine, actually he behaves as though there is nothing wrong with him and today he is taking part in a regatta up the coast from here (well he will be if the rain stops for long enough for it to go ahead). Everyone, even his doctors, are amazed at what he still manages to do. He is on the transplant list and now we just have to wait in the hope that a suitable match is found for him. I think many people assume that this is a testing time for us, but we have learned to accept that it will happen if and when it does, and as I said Neu certainly isn’t sitting at home brooding about it. We are very lucky in that he does not suffer all of the symptoms that many kidney failure paitents do and the fact that he is able to do his dialysis at home makes life a lot simpler.
As for what I would do if something were to happen to him, well again I don’t really think about it. None of us can know what the future has in store, I will cross that bridge if ever the time comes. I’m not sure I could afford to go back to England. We have a nice house here but we live on a reserve and the rules are that we can’t sell the house to anyone not born here and it is unlikely that anyone born here would want to buy it, so I’d have nothing to finance a move with. If I were to leave I would so miss the sun and the sea and yes Neu’s family have adopted me but then there are my own children to consider, it’s all so complicated once I start thinking about it, another reason for not doing so.
I guess like anywhere, immigrants are accepted here until there is a moment of crisis and then some seek to blame the immigrants for what ever problems exist. Genrally Brazil is welcoming of immigrants (especially if they have money) but I suspect we shall see that situation change in the future if the difficulties in the economy worsen, there are already rumblings of disquite about foreign nationals taking the best job in sectors such as the IT industry. There has been a mass of immigrants coming in from Haiti, I suspect that many of them will find that life here can be very tough, probably still better than what they have come from, but racism is rife in Brazil and being poor, black and foreign they will face discrimination at every turn.
As for fitting in, I guess how much you can depends on the person and the place. We live in a very small community and there are only two other non Brazilians in the village. Being married to a local I am accepted though I know I will always be an outsider to some.
As for advice, the only thing I could say would be to look at things from evey possible angle and then follow your heart.
Living on a sail boat sounds wonderful, though I can imagine it has it’s down sides too.
I’d like to know what art you do 🙂
Love Claire
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